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Home • Devotion #2: Wives

“He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.” Proverbs 18:22

“Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.”  Ephesians 5:22-25 (NIV) 

When thinking about what it means to me to be a wife, my mind sometimes wanders back to when I was in the seventh grade.  We were given an assignment to write about the career we hoped to have when we finished school. I remember it being very difficult for me to decide what would be the topic of my report. All I could think was that I wanted to be a wife and mom. I was so blessed to be surrounded by incredible ladies that were a great example to me of what a godly wife should look like. I have no recollection of what career I chose for that project, but I have loved being a wife and mother. 

Marriage is not always easy; it takes work to have my husband feel that he has found a “good thing” as the verse in Proverbs says. We are both firstborns and spent most of our careers in management positions, giving direction to others. We can be bossy and regularly clash because we both know the “best” way to do something and are each confident that our method or opinion is the right one. I am often in pretty deep when I recall the verses from Ephesians and remember that I am called to submit to my husband as to the Lord. 

Learning to submit has definitely taken work on my part. The closer I grow to the Lord, the better I understand submission. We see in Scripture that Christ constantly submitted to the will of the Father. Understanding submission to be an attitude of trust has helped me to have a greater love and respect for my husband. 

Genesis chapter 2 tells us that man was not created to be alone so God made a woman, a helper for him. When we submit to our husbands, we submit to the Lord. God created wives to complete husbands. Their love for us grows when we respect them and trust them to lead us.
Proverbs 31:10 (CEV) says, “A truly good wife is the most precious treasure a man can find!” 

Gather • Devotion #5: Gather Together and Sing, Sing, Sing

“When you meet together, sing psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs, as you praise the Lord with all your heart.” Ephesians 5:19 (CEV)

Worshiping in a song is an important part of gathering together, and one of my favorite parts of the gathering. I love music, all kinds. You might be surprised if you wandered through my phone to find, hymns, country, and rap (not to worry, it is clean Christian rap). You would also find some southern gospel: a few classical pieces, and lots of contemporary Christian artists. Music soothes my soul, lifts my spirits, makes me happy, and brings me into quiet, reflective worship. There is something about singing in worship to the Lord that takes our hearts to a special place. 

Some cherished memories from my childhood include my dad and his friends playing music in our home. They would get out their guitars, and my mom would sing beautiful hymns. My dad did not sing, but one of his friends would often sing in harmony with my mom. One of my mom’s favorite songs was “Old Rugged Cross.” My mother loved music, and she loved Jesus! The cross was dear to her, and she clung to it through a lifetime of illness. The words of that old hymn always bring me to tears as I think about seeing my mom and dad again one day when I get to Heaven. 

Old Rugged Cross

On a hill far away stood an old rugged cross
The emblem of suffering and shame
And I love that old cross where the dearest and best
For a world of lost sinners was slain

So I’ll cherish the old rugged cross
Till my trophies at last I lay down
And I will cling to the old rugged cross
And exchange it some day for a crown

To the old rugged cross I will ever be true
It’s shame and reproach gladly bear

Then he’ll call me some day to my home far away
Where his glory forever I’ll share

And I’ll cherish the old rugged cross
Till my trophies at last I lay down
And I will cling to the old rugged cross
And exchange it some day for a crown

The music in gatherings has changed since I was a girl. Drums and electric guitars have joined the piano on stage and the sound of the songs is now very different. One thing has not changed, the songs we sang then and those we sing now tell of a God who loves us unconditionally and has always and will always be there for us. I found one of my all-time favorite worship songs in my phone, “Lord, I need you.” It always reminds me that no matter when I have struggled, or what I have gone through, on good days and bad, my hope is in Jesus.  

Lord, I Need You

Lord, I come, I confess
Bowing here I find my rest
Without You I fall apart
You’re the One that guides my heart

Lord, I need You, oh, I need You
Every hour I need You
My one defense, my righteousness
Oh God, how I need You

Where sin runs deep Your grace is more
Where grace is found is where You are
Where You are, Lord, I am free
Holiness is Christ in me

Lord, I need You, oh, I need You
Every hour I need You
My one defense, my righteousness
Oh God, how I need You

So teach my song to rise to You
When temptation comes my way
When I cannot stand I’ll fall on You

Jesus, you’re my hope and stay

Lord, I need You, oh, I need You
Every hour I need You
My one defense, my righteousness
Oh God, how I need You

You’re my one defense, my righteousness
Oh God, how I need You

In Matthew 18:20, Jesus tells us, “For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I among them.” Attend a gathering somewhere this weekend and follow the instruction given to us in Psalms 47:6, “Sing praises to God, sing praises! Sing praises to our King, sing praises!”   

Standing in The Battle

Raised Arms | Devotion 1: Standing in The Battle
Debbie Gabbara

Sometimes we all need help. Over the last few years, I have had two knee replacement surgeries. They each required months of physical therapy. In the beginning, my leg was very weak, and I needed help to stand and do the required exercises. I was so thankful for the physical therapists that would come along side me and literally hold me up. When I was not able to stand on my own, they were there to support me.

Moses was a great man of God. He went to God in his time of need. In Exodus chapter 17, we find the Israelites in battle, and Moses standing with his arms held up in appeal to God for help, “Moses’ arms soon became so tired he could no longer hold them up. So Aaron and Hur found a stone for him to sit on. Then they stood on each side of Moses, holding up his hands. So his hands held steady until sunset” (Exodus 17:12 NLT).

If you keep reading the story here in Exodus chapter 17, you will find that whenever Moses’ arms were up, the Israelites were winning the battle against the Amalekites and when they came down, the battle would shift, and they would begin to lose ground. The Bible does not say that Moses asked for help. His friends saw that he had a need and were there to support him. Aaron and Hur saw that Moses needed help and found a way to be there for him.

People all around us are struggling in the battles they are fighting. Every day we hear about hardships in the lives of those that we know and love. That means that every day we have the opportunity to be a help to someone in some way. As we all know, it is hard to ask for help. Aaron and Hur were watching and saw that Moses needed them. If we are keeping watch, we will find ways to be a help to those around us. Sometimes we are needed to pray and encourage someone, and sometimes we are needed to stand in the battle with them and hold them up.

Proverbs 11:25 says that whoever brings a blessing will be blessed, that when we water, we will be watered. God blesses us when we bless others! Galatians 6:2 says that we obey the law of Christ when we share each other’s burdens.

Aaron and Hur stood strong in the battle as they supported their leader and friend. Who has God put in your life to whom you can be a blessing?

 “Now may our Lord Jesus Christ himself and God our Father, who loved us and by his grace gave us eternal comfort and a wonderful hope, comfort you and strengthen you in every good thing you do and say.” 2 Thessalonians 2:16-17 (NLT)

Nobody?

Murder | Devotion 2: Nobody?
Debbie Gabbara

D.L. Moody said that Moses spent:
40 years thinking he was a somebody
40 years learning he was a nobody
40 years discovering what God can do with a nobody.

Though he was born to a Hebrew family, Moses spent the first 40 years of his life living like a prince, the grandson of the King of Egypt. Acts 7:22 (NASB) tells us that “Moses was educated in all the learning of the Egyptians, and he was a man of power in words and action.” Moses was raised to think he was a somebody.

Exodus 2:11-12 says, “One day, when Moses had grown up, he went out to his people and looked on their burdens, and he saw an Egyptian beating a Hebrew, one of his people.  He looked this way and that, and seeing no one, he struck down the Egyptian and hid him in the sand.”  

The Bible does not tell us how Moses came to know that he was a Hebrew, or if he always had knowledge of his true heritage. Yet there came a time when he made a choice, Moses chose God. He chose the Hebrew people, his people. He refused to be known as the son of Pharaoh’s daughter. Moses saw the burdens of his people, and when he witnessed a slave being beaten, he intervened to help and murdered the Egyptian.

Sin does not go uncovered for long. The sands of life shift and the king soon heard about what Moses had done and wanted to kill him. The Hebrews did not understand why Moses, an Egyptian, was interfering in their affairs and the king was ready to put Moses to death for his crime. Moses must have been in much turmoil trying to understand his role, he was a prince, yet he was also the same as the Hebrew slaves. Moses fled to Midian and would stay there for 40 years learning that he was a nobody.

Acts 7:25 says, “He supposed that his brothers would understand that God was giving them salvation by his hand, but they did not understand.”

Hebrews 11:24-26 adds, “By faith Moses, when he was grown up, refused to be called the son of Pharaoh’s daughter, choosing rather to be mistreated with the people of God than to enjoy the fleeting pleasures of sin. He considered the reproach of Christ greater wealth than the treasures of Egypt, for he was looking to the reward.”

God had great plans for Moses from the day he was born. He chose Moses long before Moses chose Him. God would one day use this murderer, a nobody, to save His people.

It would take 40 more years for Moses to discover what God could do with a nobody.

One in a Million

Thirst | Devotion #5: One in a Million
Debbie Gabbara | Assistant to the Gathering Pastor

An article entitled “Biblical Prophecies Fulfilled by Jesus” from CBN says “The Old Testament is the part of the Bible written before Jesus was born. Its writings were completed in 450 B.C. The Old Testament, written hundreds of years before Jesus’ birth, contains over 300 prophecies that Jesus fulfilled through His life, death, and resurrection. Mathematically speaking, the odds of anyone fulfilling this amount of prophecy are staggering. Mathematicians put it this way: 

1 person fulfilling 8 prophecies: 1 in 100,000,000,000,000,000 

1 person fulfilling 48 prophecies: 1 chance in 10 to the 157th power 

1 person fulfilling 300+ prophecies: Only Jesus!”

“Only Jesus!” Only Jesus, God in the flesh, could have fulfilled every single prophecy that was given concerning the Messiah, the One that God would send to save the world from our sins. One of those prophesies was fulfilled when Jesus spoke the words we find in John chapter 19 (NIV), “I am thirsty.” 

My mind can hardly stand to think about what Jesus had been through by the time He made that statement. Our Lord had been beaten, mocked, humiliated, stripped of his clothes and dignity, and nailed. He was nailed to a cross. The Bible tells us that Jesus hung on the cross for six hours. He went willingly for your sins and mine.  John 19:28 (NIV) says, “Later, knowing that everything had now been finished, and so that Scripture would be fulfilled, Jesus said, ‘I am thirsty.’” 

John tells us that Jesus spoke those words to fulfill Scripture. Psalm 63:1 (NIV) reads, “You, God, are my God, earnestly I seek you; I thirst for you, my whole being longs for you, in a dry and parched land where there is no water.” Jesus left nothing undone that had been foretold. He fulfilled every single Scripture that had ever been written about the One that God would send to rescue us. His will was to do the will of His Father, no matter what the cost. Jesus completely fulfilled the mission that the Father had for Him here on Earth.

We live in a world that is parched. Are you thirsty for the will of God? Do you seek Him no matter what the cost? Do you long for Him? In John 4:14 (NIV), Jesus said, “But whoever drinks the water I give them will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give them will become in them a spring of water welling up to eternal life.”

Let Jesus lead you to spring waters of life. Anyone or anything else will always leave you thirsty.



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