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Lesson Fifteen | Devotion #1: Agrippa
Ryan Story | Student Pastor

(A letter to my son Zeke)

You are the start to the greatest blessing God has ever given me, our family. Your mom and I were just talking about me having to learn to be a family man the hard way. At one point I was open to the idea of being single for the rest of my life, and then God saw fit to let your mother fall in love with me. A few years later God saw fit to bless me with your brother, and then on February 16, 2017, God saw fit to bless me with you. Sadly, my family never gave me a blueprint on how to be a godly husband or a godly father. Sadly, you very well might be the first, second-generation Jesus follower that our family tree has. Do not take this as an opportunity to judge your family, but realize you and your brother are something special, and I will do everything in my power to show you how to live for Jesus.

In the Gospels, there was a man by the name of Herod the Great. Herod was the Roman client king of Judea. Herod’s power over all of Judea was artificial because the Roman government had given it to him.  When Herod heard stories about the coming of Jesus the true King of kings, Herod feared he would lose his authority and attempted to kill Jesus. Son, when you read the Bible, make sure you take the whole thing in context and connect the dots. Genealogy is important, do not skip it. If we fast forward to this Herod’s grandson, we see a man by the name of Agrippa. He is showcased in Acts 25 and 26. We see Paul pleading for his life in front of many men who want him dead. A man named Festus put Paul’s case in front of Agrippa. After hearing all the allegations before him, Paul was fearless and was able to defend his faith to the point of evangelizing to an entire room of enemies. In the end, Agrippa found Paul innocent and even scolded Festus for imprisoning him.  It is hard to imagine, but I have always been curious if there was a change in Herod’s family. Herod was so much against Jesus that he was willing to kill babies to keep his power. Fast-forward two generations, Agrippa has one of the world’s most renowned church planter before him, and he lets him go. I could not tell you if there was a change in this man or not, but what I do know is that we are not chained to the mistakes of our forefathers.

Son, I have no idea what this world holds for you. I do not have the slightest clue what decisions you will have to make to stay true to God’s Word. Watching the news scares me. Spending time on Twitter or Facebook, causes me to lose sleep thinking about the strength it is going to take for you to stay true to God. The one thing I do know, you get to choose your path with God. Not me, not the world, not our past, nothing on this Earth dictates your desire to live for Jesus. Son, I ask one simple thing, help me start a new branch for our family.  Jesus has started an amazing work in you and your brother. You are going to be something that our family tree has never seen. Help me start a limb that lives for Jesus with passion and zeal. Help me grow a branch that does not succumb to alcohol or addiction. Help me break the cycle and start a new heritage with Jesus. 2 Corinthians 5:17 says, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.”  If Jesus is capable of making a person new, He is capable of making a family new, but only if you push after Him. It only happens if you see how great your life will be living for Christ. Son, never let yesterday affect your tomorrow; that is one lesson I learned very late in life. So, what great blessings await you, your sons, or your son’s sons?


Lesson Eleven | Devotion #2: Ezekiel
Ryan Story | Student Pastor

(A letter to my son, Zeke)

Zeke,One of the strangest phenomena of being a parent is realizing you have to name your child. Your mother and I would spend hours throwing names around. At one point your name was almost Kalen Elias, and we would have called you Kal-El for short. Sadly, I did not want to limit you on the potential of Superman; I wanted to name you something where God would take you on an amazing adventure.

Being that I am a strange person, when I read the Bible, I find comfort in the oddest places. When asked, “Who is your favorite Bible character other than Jesus?” most might say Daniel, David, Samson, or Peter. Your dad likes the guys who are tough, the ones that stand up for God’s Word, and the ones who are a bit crazy. I have always been amazed by the prophet Ezekiel. Depending on when you are reading this, determines on me giving you permission to read that book. Ezekiel has some of the toughest sections of Scripture and some of the most beautiful.  Throughout his whole life, Ezekiel had one amazing characteristic, his strength. Now with most men of God, Ezekiel knew his strength came from God, which is what his name means, “God strengthens.”  Ezekiel did not have an easy life, but I think that helped him realize that he needed to rely on God that much more. The horrible things that this prophet must have seen while warning his loved ones to repent (Ezekiel 3), to watching God’s Glory leave the temple (Ezekiel 10), to not being able to mourn his wife because of what God told him (Ezekiel 24).

Hard times can do one of two things, break you or make you. While it was not Ezekiel who said it, but one of his fellow prophets wrote, “Behold, I have refined you, but not as silver; I have tried you in the furnace of affliction” (Isaiah 48:10).  Take the affliction to receive the refinement. Son, life is going to kick your teeth in at some point. I wish I could protect you from it, but it will. Even if you are as righteous as Job, the world will hurt you. There will be days when giving up seems like the only option. There will be days when you feel surrounded, and darkness seems to be everywhere. When the day comes when you feel you might break, remember your namesake, ‘God strengthens!’ The day when you do not know how you are going to make it through another horrible situation, remember God strengthens. Fear will sneak up on you, and the enemy will try to destroy you, but remember God strengthens.

You need to be strong, but never forget who gives you the ability to be strong. Never forget that the only reason we cannot be beaten is because God is with us. God gave His life for us, and now because of what Jesus did on the cross, we are His people. If you never forget who has your back, you will never be without strength.

“What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us?” Romans 8:31


Lesson Nine | Devotion #2: Rehoboam
Ryan Story | Student Pastor

(A letter to my son Zeke)

Do not be dumb. I am sure your mother has yelled at me several times for calling you dumb thus far in your life, but I repeat, “Do not be dumb.” You have drawn an unfortunate card in life; your father is a Student Pastor. I have watched, for years, as some of the brightest and best teenagers I have ever known throw their lives away for fleshly desires, pride, laziness, and idolatry. I cannot sit by and watch you do the same. I wish I could have taught them about Solomon’s son. There seems to be a link between their choices and their wisdom (or the lack). Every student I have seen walk away has one thing in common; they forsake the counsel of the wise and accepted counsel from their peers who were living in the world. I have watched as students went from being wise young sages to being just plain dumb.

Solomon was considered the wisest man to walk this Earth, excluding Jesus of course. God used Solomon and took the kingdom of Israel and made it the center of the world. Solomon’s inherited kingdom was vast and rich! Solomon at one point would have been worth around 2.2 trillion dollars. Solomon was given 666 talents of gold a year (1 Kings 10:14); that would be roughly 25 tons of gold a year! Solomon built his kingdom using the wisdom God had given him. Solomon being a wise king put together a council to help his son rule when he died. When Rehoboam took the throne, he took counsel from Solomon’s council and took counsel from a group of his buddies.  Solomon’s counsel advised Rehoboam to lift the heavy taxes, Rehoboam’s buddies advised making more taxes so they all could get more money.  I would love to say Rehoboam made a wise choice here but in 1 Kings 12:8 it says, “But he abandoned the counsel that the old men gave him and took counsel with the young men who had grown up with him and stood before him.” This one decision led to the kingdom of Israel dividing into two. That is what it means to be dumb.

Who is in your ear son? Who do you go to when you need advice? The smartest thing I have ever done in life, besides marrying your mother, was I found the wisest old man I could, and I let that man teach me about life, ministry, marriage, fatherhood, and about everything else I could ask. Who do you have? I know I may not always be your top choice, but I can name a handful of guys who could sit and help you navigate through your life.  I have watched as kids have nosedived into sin and I truly think if they had taken the time to find a person to teach them godly wisdom, their lives would look different. I have watched as potential future leaders in the church have given up everything to be like their worldly friends. I have watched year after year at least one student who I thought had the utmost potential give it all away because he or she took bad advice.

Wisdom does not come with age, education, “vocabulistics,” or good old fashion book learning. It comes from God. Zeke if you want to change the world for Jesus, you are going to need a guide, a person who first of all loves and lives for Jesus with all their heart and someone who has been there before. Find someone who can tell you what is up ahead. Find someone and listen. Be a wise son, because if I call you dumb one more time, your mom is going to yell at me.

“Humility and silence are beautiful graces in young people. Never be ashamed of being a learner: Jesus was one at twelve years; when He was found in the temple, He was ‘sitting among the teachers, listening to them and asking them questions’ (Luke 2:46).”  J.C Ryle, Thoughts for Young Men


Lesson Three | Devotion #5: Joseph
Ryan Story | Student Pastor

(A letter to my son Zeke)

Zeke, It is a Monday, and your mother is at work. That means I am to brave the craziness of you and Broly. You are passed out sitting next to me while I attempt to get this written in a reasonable time.  About ten feet away, your brother is playing with his hockey stick swinging it around like Al MacInnis (five points for whoever knows who that is) yelling “hockey, hockey, hockey.” I paused from typing this letter until your brother went into the other room. I did not want to be distracted and have you take high-sticking to the face. Sadly, I have watched your big brother love you fiercely one moment and then hurt you the next. Legit, he stepped on your head last week. One day, you will understand the phenomena when the one person who you would protect with your life hurts the other person who you would protect with your life. It is a very conflicting feeling when you have to discipline one of them. Watching your brother, I know he loves you, I know he will protect you, and I also know he will hurt you, and you will hurt him. Sadly, you boys will grow up to not only hurt each other physically but emotionally and spiritually as well.  If I am any type of father, I hope I have taught you the story of Joseph well enough that you can use him as an example when someone hurts you.

Joseph and his family were doomed to drama from the start. Jacob had four wives, and Jacob made an error that no parent should make. In Genesis 37:3, the Bible says, “Now Israel (Jacob) loved Joseph more than any other of his sons, because he was the son of his old age.” I hope I never become the type of person to criticize another’s parenting style, but I think I have to say that Jacob messed up here as a father. This error led to Jacob’s other sons selling Joseph into slavery, and that led to the brothers thinking Joseph was dead. That is when the whole adventure of Joseph begins. Due to space, I need to fast forward past a jail, an unfaithful wife, a cupbearer, and famine. After all of that, we have one of the most amazing moments in the Bible. Luckily, when it came time for Joseph to show the kind of man of God he was, he could not continue his shenanigans, and he announced to his brothers who he was and forgave them all. An amazing story of reconciliation and forgiveness takes place that may be only second to Jesus’ death on the cross.

I love both of you boys equally. While it may look different at times, please never sell another into slavery as a prank because you think I will favor you more. However you two boys turn out, I have one request, fight for family. I feel I am not one who can even request such a thing because I have not done so in my own life, but I have come to know the importance of family as you two grow up. I have experienced too many bridges burnt down in my life, some necessary and others not, but I hope I am the type of father who can show you that family is the most important human relationship you will have (until you get married). Let grudges go. Live selflessly. Help each other. Pray for each other. Lift one another’s burdens. Do not let pettiness or pride come between you and your brother. No hurt is ever great enough that forgiveness cannot be a remedy. Joseph wins the all time award for someone who could have kept a grudge but turned to God instead.

In Genesis 50:20-21, Joseph says, “‘As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people should be kept alive, as they are today. So do not fear; I will provide for you and your little ones.’ Thus he comforted them and spoke kindly to them.”  There will be times your brother will hurt you, and I may even let you get even (legit he stepped on your head!). But Zeke, I want you two to fight for godliness. I want you two to fight for purity. I want you two to fight for righteousness. I want you to fight against the norm and evangelize in your schools. There is plenty of fighting that needs to be done, do not waste it fighting with someone who is on your team.

Ready | Why?

Ready | Devotion #5: Why?
Ryan Story | Student Pastor

About ten years ago, I was working at Stepanski Early Childhood Center in Waterford. At one point in my life, I had dreams and aspirations to be a pre-school teacher, so I went to school for my Early Child Development Degree and got an internship that led to a part-time job at S.E.C. I am pretty sure that the janitor and I were the only men that worked at that building, so needless to say, I was super popular with all the kids. While I had only two classes that I primarily helped with, recess time was a free for all. During recess kids wanted me to play with them. Kids in the sandbox would ask me to play, kids on the swings would ask me to push, kids running around would want to play tag (this was many pounds ago), and kids on the play structures would want me to watch them. Recess that was normally super fun became exhausting!  Trying to be there for every single kid was hard, and I did my best every day we went out, but I was spent at the end of the day.

I have been asked from students, “if Jesus came back from the grave, why did he leave to go back to Heaven?” That is such an amazing question, on so many levels. Jesus defeated death, Hell, and the grave because He died on a cross. He died for the world that crucified Him. Three days after His death, Jesus rose in victory, proving that no grave could hold him. Jesus’ victory was sure, and yet He stayed around. Sure, we could say Jesus wanted to see His mother, Peter, James, or Thomas before He left. Not only does He see them, but He also teaches some amazing lessons, and just stays on earth. Jesus stayed on earth for forty days after His resurrection to show that He was alive, but then He decided to leave.

In Acts chapter one, Jesus and His followers have gathered around, and one asked when Jesus was going to restore Israel. Jesus responded and then made one of the most amazing promises in the Bible. In verse 8 He says, “But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth.” Then Jesus just leaves. To me, this is the craziest mic drop moment in the Bible. No evidence of Jesus explaining what the Holy Spirit was capable of, no explanation of what the game plan was on how to run this thing called “the Church,” just “you get Holy Spirit power, go witness, I am out!” The amount of “whys” should flood our minds reading this!

The thing I love most about reading the Bible is connecting the dots. Sometimes to understand something we have to be able to take something apart. Since God exists in the Trinity ( Father, Son, and Spirit), we have to be able to see all that encompasses the Trinity when we ask our “whys.” Each part of the Trinity is God, but each has a “job,” so to speak.  Throughout the whole Bible, we see that God is humble. Jesus’ entire life, He was humble and submits to His Father. If you read Philippians chapter 2, Father God will exalt Jesus, the Son, with the name above all names. Throughout the Bible, we see God the Father sending the Holy Spirit.  To answer the question of “Why did Jesus ascend” we need to look in John chapter 14. Jesus tells us in verse 16 that when He returns to Heaven “I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Helper, to be with you forever.” Even more crazy, before He says all of that Jesus says in verse 12,  “Truly, truly, I say to you, whoever believes in me will also do the works that I do; and greater works than these will he do, because I am going to the Father.”  Jesus knows that the disciples “greater work” was made possible because of His work on the cross, and this “greater work” will be fueled by the Holy Spirit.

“Why did Jesus leave?” I feel with all that information, Jesus left so He could send the Holy Spirit. Jesus knew that the Spirit would be able to help guide, teach, protect, and ensure believers would always have a way to communicate with God. To say Jesus cannot do something is a dangerous place to be, but Jesus never existed in multiple places in the world at once. Jesus left because He knew by leaving the Holy Spirit could (and would) be everywhere around the world. Crazy to think even Jesus was humble enough to know, He could not be everywhere at once.

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