The Gift of Blessings | Devotion #4: The Gift Giver
Caleb Combs | Gathering Pastor
Are you a good gift giver? I view myself as a good gift giver. For me, the key to being a good gift giver is by listening and writing down things so that I will remember when the time comes to choose a gift. I have tried to do this over the years when buying gifts for my wife, Sierra. However, I can tell you of a time I bought her a “do not buy” gift. You see, no one warned me about the “do not buy” list. It is like buying your wife a nice new vacuum for her birthday or a new set of pots and pans for Christmas. Take it from me guys, do not do it. Do not get sucked into their trick, even if they read this devotion and say they want it. Trust me, do not do it.
My wife and I started dating in college. I was a sophomore, and she was a freshman at Grace Bible College. It was love at first sight (at least for me). It took me a while to win her over. Gifts in relationships are an important thing, and when you find yourself in a new relationship, there is a lot of pressure, especially on a dumb college guy who has no idea what to buy his girlfriend. Valentine’s Day was coming up, and the pressure began to mount. I had no idea what to buy her. While thinking and agonizing over what to get her, I remembered a conversation we once had. She mentioned that she would like to start working out. Side note: My wife does not work out. She gets in these phases where she gets inspired to work out and says she is going to start but in all our years together, she never actually has. To make things totally unfair, she eats whatever she wants and yet has stayed the same size since high school, eliminating much of the motivation. It must be nice! She got this crazy idea that she was going to become a fitness guru and so I got my own crazy idea. Now that I have been married for over 13 years, I have realized that work out things are on her “Do not buy” list. However, I had no idea of this at the time. So, I decided I would go buy her an exercise outfit for Valentine’s Day. I went to a sporting goods store and spent around $125 on a sweet Nike workout outfit. I got her the matching pants and top and a jacket to go over it, so she would at least look the part even though she had no idea what she was doing (I love you, babe! I probably should not have said that). The day came, and I wrapped the present and gave it to her. I knew instantly that I had made a mistake. The look on her face was a look of horror, followed by the question that no man ever wants to be asked, “You think that I need to work out?” Do not, I repeat, do not answer that question. I am a Combs, and I can talk all day, but that moment left me speechless. Needless to say, I will never get sucked into buying her something on the “do not buy” list again. My gift was far from great, and though it was thought out and prepared, it was a total fail.
James 1:17 says, “Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change.” This verse talks about all of the gifts and blessings God gives us. Man, we are so blessed! We are getting ready to celebrate the greatest gift ever given (Jesus Christ) by giving gifts to our loved ones. I know we can get caught up in the giving of these gifts and whether they are great gifts or not so great gifts, but let us never forgot the perfect gift that was given to the world in a small town and in little barn, born to Mary and Joseph. There is no way they could even comprehend the magnitude of how incredibly perfect this gift was. They were blessed by the gift of their first son, but the world was blessed with the Savior of the world. What an incredible gift!